I had made a strong decision not to fall for lustful cravings, till the end of this year.. It has been close to 4 months now and I failed yesterday night & just few mins ago, again.
When I chat, I lie to get what I want, i kind of cheat by praising, I behave like a brute sometimes by behaving dominant. When its over, Im back to reality.. reality of honesty, logic and humanity.
We are forever bombarded with sexual content and thoughts from external world. It takes a lot of mental strength to fight it or just let them go without concern.. This war needs a "Peaceful Warrior"to fight it.
Observing my behavior under lust's influence, I am convinced that It is a major cause for crimes, lies and violence.
It suppresses logic - No amount of logic can convince a brute. No logic works on a lustful person.
There are many people who strongly argue that - when raped, its not the fault of the woman wearing revealing clothing. Very logical and true.
But its also true that there are many many weak minds and frustrated men on this planet, a little prod to their senses is enough to make them go crazy with lustful feelings and visuals in their minds.
Such people plan cunningly, they talk sweetly, if its not happening they use violence, they'll do heinous stuff under this hormone's influence. But they may not be such a cruel person in reality when they are normal.
The solution doesn't lie in roaming around naked and shouting Its not a woman's fault - Cuz logic's magic has little effect on this stuff. Not none, but little.
The planes of argument are different.
We need to find a solution on the emotional plane. Solution lies in recognizing/reanalyzing your behavior or understanding your emotions and others, after your down from the lust hormone rush.
Heres a good post about such a realization :
http://www.interactivetheatre.org/resc/jackm.html
When I chat, I lie to get what I want, i kind of cheat by praising, I behave like a brute sometimes by behaving dominant. When its over, Im back to reality.. reality of honesty, logic and humanity.
We are forever bombarded with sexual content and thoughts from external world. It takes a lot of mental strength to fight it or just let them go without concern.. This war needs a "Peaceful Warrior"to fight it.
Observing my behavior under lust's influence, I am convinced that It is a major cause for crimes, lies and violence.
It suppresses logic - No amount of logic can convince a brute. No logic works on a lustful person.
There are many people who strongly argue that - when raped, its not the fault of the woman wearing revealing clothing. Very logical and true.
But its also true that there are many many weak minds and frustrated men on this planet, a little prod to their senses is enough to make them go crazy with lustful feelings and visuals in their minds.
Such people plan cunningly, they talk sweetly, if its not happening they use violence, they'll do heinous stuff under this hormone's influence. But they may not be such a cruel person in reality when they are normal.
The solution doesn't lie in roaming around naked and shouting Its not a woman's fault - Cuz logic's magic has little effect on this stuff. Not none, but little.
The planes of argument are different.
We need to find a solution on the emotional plane. Solution lies in recognizing/reanalyzing your behavior or understanding your emotions and others, after your down from the lust hormone rush.
Heres a good post about such a realization :
http://www.interactivetheatre.org/resc/jackm.html
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